Apparently, the correct answer has to come from so many voices and directions before you listen that you just couldn’t resolve a rules argument in real time (without quitting the game in disgust).
Shoot the messenger, discuss history, dissemble, it doesn’t matter.
I don’t read the rules that carefully, either. I’d already played 4 versions of the game before I bought Global, so it was easy to extrapolate from there, but not the details.
This caused plenty of slop and corrections, and many of them came from my partner, who I “taught” to play the game. More came from playing other strong players and champions at conventions and on the forums. None of that makes me sad or hurt, because everyone makes mistakes.
Now, when I make a mistake and put pieces in the wrong place, or mis-see what’s going on, or misunderstand the rules (now rare, because of the forum discussions, but it happens.) most of the time,
I don’t ask for a pass or take-backs, I just let them destroy me, even if it costs me the game. I’d rather admit I made a mistake, and know that I cost myself a significant advantage … and that it happens to everyone.