@djensen:
I want to split the discussion into two parts. A discussion about moderation and moderators and a discussion about users and user behavior.
This thread is about users and the rules that should apply and how we foster a community that is fun yet civil. Yes, it is linked to moderation but that’s for the other thread.
Thanks for getting the ball rolling. Below are my thoughts on the subject.
1. Personal attacks or flames should never be permitted.
2. Discussion of modern politics, or modern political controversies, should not be permitted.
3. Discussion of WWII history, including controversies relating to WWII, should be permitted.
4. No other major prohibitions should be put into place.
5. The rules put into place should create predictability. As an example, if the rules prohibit personal attacks, no user should ever make one. If an attack is nevertheless made, the moderators should always take some sort of action. If some rules are enforced but not others, or if a rule is enforced some of the time but not at other times, the result is unpredictable. When moderators act unpredictably, some will see them as biased.
6. To help create predictability, the rules should not employ any ambiguous words or phrases.
7. The rules should be stated in the terms of service. In addition, it should be as easy as possible to find them via links. Moderators should copy and paste the rules in their entirety into any post which announces a moderation decision.