Wild Bill said it best…probably a meeting in the middle is required…
Because we a rather decent sized group, but it ranged from:
Me) Laid back, can think VERY well fast and on my feet, rarely overthink to begin with, but am famous for missing a KEY detail like building 3 transports undefended in a sea zone and losing them all. Lol
friend 1) ADMITS he has analysis paralysis, but at the same time wants to get more rounds in…our group has NEVER gotten past round 6…furthest we got was round 6, Germany was at Moscows doorstep, so we just did Germanys turn in round 7, they took Moscow, Allies conceded defeat…But he’d like to see MORE rounds in the time we have
friend 2) Hates spending 2 days of his weekend to sitting in the house, but LOVES doing it for one day…however, he doesn’t see any way a time clock works because it’s a thinking mans game and he doesn’t want to cheapen the experience. I call this friend the wants his cake and eat it too friend Lol. Because I WOULD dedicate 2 days as would friend 1, but friend 2 refuses lol.
Family member 1) Wants to play games out fully and refuses to conceded even if Russia falls early and Germany and Japan can just turn around and focus everything and all those IPCs in their respective theatres…wants to leave board set up and keep coming back to play…problem with that is, we are all career men, many have families, so week to week not all the same people play…we are just fortunate to have 9 or 10 guys, all very interested, so we can pretty much field a decent game everyweek, just not always the same guys…
Family member 2) much younger than the rest of us, involved in lots of stuff, also can only dedicate one day, and likes the idea of a set time limit and set victory conditions, and is 100% fine with saying “we play from 9am to 5pm, and whoever has majority of X, Y, and Z at that time wins”
…you get the picture…I can keep going, but everyone kinda has their own agendas and wishes…so I think the ONLY fair way to do it is everyone make compromises and meet in the middle…
What exactly that is, probably depends on each individual game group. We are managing and having fun, but EVERY week there is post game discussion of how we can improve.