@trulpen
@trulpen said in L20 #1 trulpen (X) vs AndrewAAGamer (A) P2V:
I’m sad to do it, but rules are rules. I’m taking the point at this stage due to time-limits.
Wow. Surprising…
You know I could tell you were upset about not being able to do some edits based on your last few posts. Frankly I did not understand your attitude since you knew and agreed to the edit policy. In fact, in an IM you said…
Knowing your stand on the matter, I’d try to be very careful when executing my turns, not counting on after-hand edits.
But for whatever reason you felt justified to be angry about my denying you a couple of minor edits recently. So now, when I just made my obvious blunder and forgot to move the 3 ANZAC fighters onto the US fleet, at first I was surprised with the apparent glee you took in attacking and taking advantage of that mistake. You made no mention at all about it and I thought “Okay – he is upset because he could not make edits however Trulpen is a nice guy and once he calms down he will realize that this game needs to be nulled or we go back to before the battle and put my ANZAC fighters back on the US fleet and play it without it being an official game.” After all, when you made your obvious blunder early in the game, with your German Build in the Med, I offered to null the game and do the same for you.
As you know, since we discussed it in depth, I have an edit policy not because I am mean or strict but because I want a mutually fair and even game with no arguments and no hard feelings. I play to have fun. I want to have fun and I want my opponent to have fun. When the game is over, no matter who wins, I want both players to be happy with the experience.
So when you made your obvious German Build blunder and were unhappy about it, because you were a nice guy, I did something I have never done in all my years of gaming. I offered you the chance to null the game and just make it for fun because I did not want any hard feeling over what was a colossal and obvious blunder. So when I did the same thing, when I made a colossal and obvious blunder by forgetting to move my three ANZAC fighters onto the US fleet, I was expecting YOU to offer to null the game. After all if you are a nice guy and an honorable guy you would offer me the exact same courtesy that I offered you. That is the only fair thing to do since I did it for you; at least an honorable person would think that way.
So I waited. I didn’t say anything about the game or the battle and I waited for you to calm down and realize you had to, in the pursuit of fairness, offer to null the game.
But instead what did I get? You claim victory over a time penalty.
Which is really interesting. Because earlier in the game when I was very busy with work and life and you gave me my first time penalty this is what you said…
I understand. I won’t be harsh with bumps, but mainly wanted to make sure you hadn’t forgotten about the game.
Then later after more bumps even though I told you I was busy you said it was not a big deal; I quote…
Anyway, I wouldn’t worry too much about the bump-thing if I were you.
I have never claimed a game due to time-warnings so far, but I think it mainly has to do with my relation to an opponent.
Basically I’m a nice guy, and I look at games as not the end of the world. Still I, as you, have a strong feeling of urging for what I perceive as fairness.
Most important for me is the good feeling of playing and having fun, which is something I can only do together with others. Winning is secondary.
So it turns out that not only are you not a nice guy. Not only are you not an honorable person. You are a liar.
So much for your fairness and winning is secondary philosophy. I can see how important that is to you.
All this over what? A game? Which means what? NOTHING! No one cares about these games. We play them for fun. Sure we all like winning but playing and having fun is paramount. That is why I strive so hard to make sure there are no arguments in the game and it is fair for everyone so when the game is over, win or lose, both players had a good time and are happy about it.
But apparently this particular game means everything to you. You are willing to be a jerk, you are willing to be dishonorable, willing to piss all over your integrity and you are willing to be a liar just to win 1 game. Amazing.
You know for some reason I do not even feel upset about this. I think I should. Maybe I am just in shock. I just feel sad for you.
I thought you were a really nice guy. I had thought I met a new friend online, like @surfer and @majikforce; instead it turns out you are just a jerk and a liar. How disappointing.
So take the game if it means so much to you; I no longer care. Just be assured I will never talk with you or play with you again. I have no interest in playing with a liar and a jerk.
I will continue to do the Tutor game because that is for the community and I made a promise to do it. However, we talked about switching sides and playing a second Tutor game when we are done. I will not do that with you. I will ask the community if they want a second game and if they do I will find another person to be my opponent.
As far as your Tournament I made a commitment to @majikforce to be his partner and I always keep my commitments so I will continue playing. If you have another one in the future I will not participate.
Adios…