yeah, you cant be controlled or owned.
i have a buddy since preschool, so i’ve known him for 18 years and been friends with him for that long, even since the little tyke play dates.
he’s getting married to a girl all the rest of us hate. b/c we havent really hung out with him for 1 1/2 years. and they havent been even dating a full 2 years.
he had never been kissed before this girl came along when he was 22. and she knew that. she threw her sex at him and he loved it. we were stoked for him. but he’s now just controlled and cant or wont do anything b/c that will make her mad.
everytime he tries to stick up for himself it doesnt work. i’ve seen her storm out of his birthday party at the bar b/c she wanted to leave and he wanted to stay with his sisters and friends he seldom sees. she couldnt take that i guess. she is soooo controlling. i continually wish bad things to happen to her.
but i talked to him at the bar about a month ago and he brought up marriage. i asked why he would bring that up, and he said b/c she’s been talking about it alot. and i went “oh no” in my mind. she has successfully got him away from his lifelong friends, b/c we all think she’s a bitch and have told him that, and he knows she’s a bitch but tries to defend it by saying she didnt have many friends and isnt that sociable. we call that bullshit.
anyhoo….now after pressuring him into marriage, she wants them to move to alaska. thats b/c she knows we are her biggest threat to her complete domination of the poor guy, so she wants to get away from us. he’s had trouble after graduation finding an engineering job, but she says her uncle will get him one in Anchorage. and now she went a bought a puppy and has it stay at her place. she lives there, but doesnt pay rent. which we know is f’ed up, but he doesnt care, he’s getting laid. when is parents who own the house come by, she has to leave, b/c she is not supposed to be living there, especially not paying rent. even his sisters dont like her, but we all love the kid and try to be supportive, but know this relationship cant last b/c after the years he will freak out about not being in control of his own life.
women complicate things…why cant they shut up, put out, clean, cook, have our children and raise them, pamper men, and f’ing like it that way? i think men have to do their duty and put women back in their proper place. except our new society has screwed that up, thats why many many relationships dont work out.
i feel sorry for all the wrongs men do women, and if we could just rise up as a nation and show them they aint shit, things would be alot better. but that would be sexist wouldnt it. and nobody likes to be called an “ist” anymore. even when they know its not being an “ist” its looking at the situation at large and seeing that there is something messed up that is driving breakups and divorces to an all time high.
my rant is over, jermo sorry man, i hope stuff works as best as it possibly can.