Zooey, no offense but…
People who fall back on some divine, omnipotent, omnipresent divine entity as the basis and foundation of their arguments are rather annoying. With such people, you can;t argue facts, you can;t use logic. To debate with such a person is to pound your head on a wall of irrational, unreasoning putrescence of thought.
Some things are worth taking on faith (like what happens to your soul, if you have one, after you die).
But to rely on a text that was not codified as the Gospels until the Council of Nicene nearly 4 centuries after the life of a philosopher known as Yeshuah of Nazareth (Gospels which were selected after excluding hundreds of other writings and POTENTIAL gospels; and Gospels which were further edited by King James 4 centuries ago)… And then to realize that ALL of those “written” Gospels were transcribed after an extended period of being passed via an oral tradition…
Well, let me just say that debating someone who uses a foundation of a 4 century long version of the Kindergarten Telephone Game played 2 millenia ago as the sole basis for their evaluation of modern society leaves something to be desired in the matter of both logic AND faith.