@smo63:
You know, if is funny, we get back from a fantastic CON. Things went almost flawless. Had great discussions about how to possibly make things better for the future, etc. Chess clocks, time, rounds etc. In every single case where we discussed the events in length, we had civil discussions because those talking about whatever the topic was, understood first hand what we being discussed.Â
And I know that some of you have been to GEN CON and have experienced events first hand. But I am not sure why there is so much negativety when it comes to the discussion on the boards vs. when one talks about it FTF. Again, I believe MM might have said it somewhere bad in a thread long ago, it sure is nice to hide behind the screen of your computer when one really doesn’t know understand the concept of what is being discussed? :mrgreen:
I’m going to be very blunt/honest/direct here. But hear me out.
it sure is nice to hide behind the screen of your computer
This is exactly the problem Smo, you hit the nail on the head. But unfortunately, you are also a primary contributer to the crime yourself.
Look for example here…
“I guess that what boards are for, so people can make aimless random comments about things that aren’t really relevant, and then proceed to start a debate over the issue.”
People tend to get offended when you paint them all with the same brush. Just like you get offended when people have anything to say (constructive or not) that deviates from your own personal Agenda for Gencon.
At the end of the day, it’s your gig, your tournament, and your deal, thus the way you want to see it - is the way it will be. The tournament is a favour to the fans. So stop caring about what people you’re having disagreements with (who often don’t attend your event) think…
More importantly stop GENERALIZING that everyone who’s from the forum side of the world has a hate on for you, or is stupid, foolish, incompetent, and unable to contribute value. Guys like Questioneer mean you no harm/foul. But it’s constantly interpretted by yourself ‘as such’.
That’s on YOU.
You’ll learn that YES there are idiots who HIDE amongst the community of the internet, in places like this, and who whine about everything…
but there’s no reason to burn down the house just to kill a few mice.
Realize this:
- Gen Con was a success,
- MORE people will come next year - likely including me,
- and this forum is NOT YOUR ENEMY.
The problem is just one or two people who are VERY JEALOUS of your success and popularity. People who are just as jealous of other personalities on the internet, as they are of the ones in real life. Ignore their spit spat - and DON’T ENGAGE them. It just fits to make you look bad, because when you strike out, you tend to strike at all of us here; and that’s not cool.